After seeing so many people do posts on what they are thankful for this month of November, I've definitely been thinking of all the things that I have to be thankful for.
Here it goes, I'm thankful for:
1. First and foremost, Robert and the positive effect he had on my life. This includes being thankful for: God joining our lives together, Robert showing me the true meaning of how it feels to love and be loved, each and every moment that I had with Robert, and the person that I am because he came into my life. I could go on and on about how Robert changed my life for the better and I will be forever grateful for that.
2. my fantastic family who have been a wonderful support system for me these past few months. I know the days aren't easy, but they're always there to offer hugs, advice, or even just ears to listen to me ramble.
3. the AMAZING family I have because of Robert. I know I say this time and time again, but I just can't say it enough how much they all mean to me. They continue to support me and I know that they are my forever family as well. I'm very lucky to have gained such amazing "in-laws" through Robert.
4. the belief in God and the promise of an eternal life with him. It's very comforting to think that when my time here on earth is done, I will move on to Heaven and be welcomed by my Dad, Robert, and all the other angels that await me. After all, this is the place where Robert was finally able to meet to my Dad.
5. my job which includes my wonderful coworkers and great kiddos that I have. It's a good feeling to enjoy going to work these days even though some days my heart just isn't in it. My co-workers are there to support me any time I need it and my kiddos are there to make me laugh each and every day. It's great to have a career that you enjoy.
6. Friends... I've got some of the best friends a girl could ask for. They continue to check on me and support me each and every day through this journey.
7. my Peanut Jay. I know he's just a dog, but he's also helped me get through this. There's days I think he loves and misses Robert just as much as I do. Sometimes all I need is to cuddle with him to make my day better. He's definitely seen quite a few tears and seems to always get closer to me when I'm upset.
I know this list seems rather short, and I have many other things to be thankful for. As I approach the upcoming holidays, I am trying to find time each day to choose joy and thankfulness. God has blessed me with a pretty darn good life and I am thankful for that. We should all cherish the life we have because our days are numbered. Remember to be thankful for all you have been given.
This is one of the many reasons that you are inspirational. It doesn't seem fair that you should have a horrible loss to see that side of you shine. Being proud of you seems petty, but it is hard to put into words how your older sister has learned so much from you. You have taught me and many others to take every day and make it the best it can be. Not to be scared, but to LIVE and to count every blessing. Tragedy seems to be too often for us, but we know that He knows the plan. I am THANKFUL for you and can't imagine life without my sister. Love you!
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