Mid December Already?!

It's definitely been quite a busy start to December. 

My mother in law in still in the hospital. She's had many ups and downs over the past two weeks with 3 difference procedures to put in a drain, vacuum out some infection, and fix the drain that was leaking. She was moved from a regular room to ICU and I got word that she was very swollen and that her kidneys were slowing down. I knew I needed to get over there and see her. My Mom and I went once last week and once this week. On Tuesday, she seemed so much better. She was awake, alert, and talking. She made sure to tell me to give Peanut a hug for her. 

I headed over to the hospital in the wee hours of the morning today to see her before they took her for surgery to repair the hole in her colon. The doctor made sure to stress that this was a pretty risky surgery. All of her siblings made it over to see her before they took her this morning. We even had the Dr. come in the room before the surgery to pray with all of us.  It was such a neat moment. When they took her this morning, she had tears in her eyes telling us all goodbye. Broke. My. Heart.  

Before heading into surgery

We kept getting updates throughout the surgery and finally the doctor came in to tell us the surgery went as expected. He was able to take out about 6 inches of her colon. He said she wasn't out of the woods yet because there's still a long road of recovery ahead of her. He did get the problem fixed though. He even thanked us for praying with him before hand and said that he said another prayer before starting.  God is in control! 

Love spending time with this little man .. even if it's in a hospital.  Can't help but think how proud Robert is of this boy!

Seeing Laury awake after surgery was wonderful.  She was in pain and looked a little swollen but just seeing her there gave me much relief.  She said "well, I woke up after the surgery and that's a good thing".  Thanks for all of the prayers! 

On top of getting daily updates from my BIL about Laury, I've been busy with my kinders and their magical elf "North" who came to visit our classroom. (Only my students would name their Elf after Kim and Kanye's baby ... although they picked the name since he's from the North Pole)  The magic of Christmas in the eyes of a child is amazing!  I love nothing more than to see their eyes light up when talking about Santa.  We've been learning Christmas carols and the students are really enjoying it.  

I started wrapping their gifts tonight.  I love giving them a little gift to open at school. For some of my students, it may be one of the few gifts they receive and I want them to experience opening a present! 

Half way down wrapping for the kinders

Last weekend was the annual Pixley 3rd girls reunion!  Every year, 4 other wonderful friends and myself get together the first weekend of December.  It's always a weekend of laughter and catching up with each other.  We did some shopping, wine (and beer) drinking, game playing, crying, and of course, lots of laughing. I love these girls so much and we've truly experienced many of life's ups and downs together. We've decided we need to make this a bi-annual thing ... so hopefully we'll meet again in June. 

Annual picture by the tree.  Love these ladies!

On an unrelated note, I heard two songs today that seemed to hit my heart pretty good. 

First one, Luke Bryan - Drink a Beer
"Funny how the good ones go too soon, but the good Lord knows the reasons why, I guess
Sometimes the greater plan is kinda hard to understand. Right now it don't make sense. I can't make it all make sense." 
 This explains my outlook on Robo so well.  I just can't seem to understand why he was taken so early in the prime of his life. We were supposed to get married, have babies, and live happily ever after ... but all of that stopped on April 23, 2012.  All I know is God has a plan ..... even if I don't understand it. 

Next song, Lowcash Cowboys - Best Seat in the House
"From the front steps of the pearly gates, I swear sometimes I can hear you say"Come on angels gather round." That's my boy girl now ain't you proud. And I point up into the sky it don't matter day or night I know somewhere just above the clouds my old man is watching me right now form the best seat in the house. Yeah I know you're looking down from the best seat in the house."
This song makes me miss my Dad so much, but it's true that I know he's watching me from the best seat in the house. I can't help but miss him and think of all the things he's missed out on here ... even though I know he's experiencing it all in Heaven. 

I'm so lucky to have two of the most special men in my life watching out for me, but it's still difficult knowing they were both taken way too soon. 

5 more days with my kinders until Christmas Break!  Here's to a crazy, fun, and tiring week!